Struggling Marriages:
Intervention Marriage Counseling
Recognize the Process
It has taken however long for you to get to a place in your marriage where you are needing intervention. As a result, recognize that change and building new ways of interacting will take time. Time well spent but nonetheless time. There are no quick fixes or shortcuts to substance and authenticity.
Commit to the Process
Intentionality and consistency is key here. Give your marriage a chance by committing to not only showing up but also being fully engaged in every session. Treat this process as a 12 week intensive where you focus in on what matters and give it your all! Let's see what we can build together with that kind of commitment and focus.
Stay Encouraged
If you believe your marriage can improve, it can. Give yourself and your spouse grace for what has been and look forward with excitement for what can be. Stay encouraged. You are taking a crucial first step by reaching out for help!
Intervention Marriage Counseling: Reboot to Find the Happy in Your Marriage
Wondering If You Can Be Happy Again In Your Marriage?
We all go through stages in our relationship that require intervention. Marriage researcher John Gottman says unhappy couples wait an average of six years before seeking couples counseling. As a result, when couples do reach out, they often are dealing with resentment, fatigue and discouragement. There is hope!
Hope Relentless Marriage and Relationship Center offers a 12 week reboot of your relationship. We will talk about foundational aspects of a relationship as seen in the diagram below. Couples will be introduced to concepts in marriage that are crucial to marital satisfaction. Ultimately, we will look at the foundation that your marriage is built on and we will examine the beliefs and habits that have evolved over time. We will keep the good and expose and replace the not so good. Encouragement and grace will be key as we journey together.
What to Expect During Intervention Counseling
Encouragement... Because you are worth it!!!
Your sessions will be fueled by encouragement because you are worth it. Your marriage may be in a challenging spot but there is still a purpose and plan for your life as well as the life of your marriage. It takes courage to reach out and begin the process of rebuilding what seems to be destroyed. We commend you and at Hope Relentless we celebrate your courage and willingness to give your marriage your all.
Do Your Best
"Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." -Maya Angelou
We will be learning new skills and building new habits. As a result, there will be purposeful actions you will need to take to reinforce what you are learning. Daily action and intentional behavior will help both of you create new habits that build the marriage you want.
Accountability + Intentions
The natural progression of marriage is downward because we are human and we can easily forget to nourish and be intentional about what matters most. We can start off with amazing intentions but as time goes on, we get busy, forget, or just don’t want to do what we did before. This is where accountability comes into the picture. We all need help doing what we want to do. It is not enough to only want to do something. It is not enough to want a good marriage. We must put in the work to cultivate an atmosphere where our marriage can grow and we begin to DO what our good intentions desire.